Top Reason People Divorce

India was known as a country with least divorce rate. It’s increasing day by day and multiple reasons and parameters are influencing. Once the bedroom arguments go out in public, based on my counseling experience, couples have very rare chances to settle. Counseling may be of help to a certain extent but the confidence level / willingness of partners should be high. It’s better to plan for mutual settlement rather than going in depression, paying on frequent court room visits and facing unnecessary pains. One should listen to soul.....try to settle down. Never be swayed away by your advisors. Most of the time external advices takes you to a longer path. Keep your EGO aside, this is the key element of all the problems. One should be mature enough to understand that God has given youthis life to live, pray, worship, enjoy.... not to fight on petty issues and keep wasting the precious moments of this birth. TALK WITH OPEN MIND AND HEART YOU WILL GET THE SOLUTION. Never try to harm each other.

The top reasons for divorce:
Poor communication between couple and two families/ friends ( if involved in marriage)
Change in priorities. This can be caused by having kids or due to ones job, career oriented mind set.

Lack of commitment to the married life

Ego
Taking each other for granted
Failed expectations of your spouse/ Family
Sexual issues
Extra marital relations
Influence / involvement of wife’s parents and family
Other reasons that come up frequently, but not as frequently are:
Addictions
Infidelity
Physical, emotional or sexual abuse
Importance to money
Over work

Have you seen God?

Most of the people will agree to the fact, that very rarely anybody,will come forward and say that he has seen God. But, if you ask anybody about his experience of life most of the people will say that they have experienced some miracles.....(Sit down in silence, relax your mind, try to slow down your thoughts and start rewinding your life's major incidences. Let your logical mind ask question to your heart/soul/Atma and you will get the answer)..and in lay man's language we say such miracles have happened due to the blessings of God. One need to have fine observation to experience and observe such miracles. These miracles happens in everyone' life and it happens on daily basis....to accept such happenings you need to keep your logical mind / ego aside and you beilve on what I am saying......
Some of my colleagues aruge about Sceince & Technology above the Nature / God. I tell them in very simple language, understanding of Nature / God starts from the point where Science & Technology stops thinking. To make you understand...let me give you an example.

Science and Technology is still way behind to understand what is that which is keeping a person alive......yes, I know you will say it's breath or Oxygen. Then let me ask you, when a person dies...why can't anybody ( Science & Technology) design an Oxygen Pump and agian pump the same Oxygen which has come out of the human body and make him alive. ....

Looking forward to receive your comments.

Om Namah Siva

If You Have....

If You have Charity and Wisdom, there is neither Fear nor Ignorance.
If You have Patience and Humility, there is neither Anger nor Aggravation.
If You have Devotion and Faith, there is neither Temptation nor Worry.
Be Simple you will sleep comfortably and have no enemy.

Perfection

Be perfectly resigned, perfectly unconcerned, no self interest then alone can you do any honest and true work for the soceity. We can not see any real forces from our naked eyes, we can only see the results: Good or Bad. Just let the God work for you, he will do it for your betterment. You have all that you can do and nothing is happening. You have done all that is humanly possible. Then what else can you do?In sheer helplessness one drop all search. And the day the search stopped, the day you leave seeking for something, it started happening. A new energy arose- out of universe and you will find yourself contended, satisfied, spritually intoxicated and relaxed.

Attaining Moksha

Whatever is here, that is there. What is there that again is here. He who sees any difference here, goes death to death.
To attain Moksha - Nirvana, one has to detach completely from "All and Everything". We all have some role to play, we deliver all the dialogues, which are assigned to us and act on this wordly stage accordingly. An average human being attach himself / herself to amenities/ develop relationship around him/ her and keep carrying forward all the debts and credits. All such acts drags again and again to this destroyable world.